Sunday, February 3, 2008

Theory of relativity

****This blog is not written to hurt anybody,and if does i am extremely sorry for that.The example used may be a hypothetical one and its not a gender specific it applies on both..I have try to use both his/her but if i missed some where it must be considered for both the sexes..****




From the beginning of the civilization there is a continuos altercation between SCIENCE and RELIGION...Sometimes it even leads to the conflict between the two.Different organization at different point of time where formed to support their Alma matter..But there is a common genesis of two which is ignored most of the time.Both talks of theory of relativity,one says there is nothing permanent in this world,soul can never be created nor be destroyed and your destiny will be judge relatively by your past deeds(with lots of clauses,for that you have to consult some religious guru) on the other hand other talks about energy which can neither be created nor be destroyed and theory of relativity.Instead of a common base and common goal(to serve humanity) why there is always a conflict between the two.


But there is limitation of both or i can say there are things or theorem which are still clandestine to us.The very basic is relativity itself.Its hard to find what is good or bad,beautiful or ugly,sweet and sour what should be unified base of every theory.How can we say the deed of one is good than another and by how much.Everyone thinking governs by his reference then whom to accept as truth.There is nothing that is absolute right or wrong.Nothing is Absolute infact.We humans sometimes change the fact to prove ourself right..then who will answer my question???


Last night i was talking to one of my sweetest friend about our college life.Suddendly she says one guy recently proposes her.I asked what answer she gave to him.Then she said yaar if he would have being proposed me after CAT result i would have given him a thought as he secured 99.6%tile and has a good chance of getting through IIMs.I asked her what changed your mind before and after CAT result cause the person is still the same he haven't changed.She answered he will be manager from IIMs just think of his branded life after that.It will be worth living with such a person.......We fought for some time over morals,status,society  and all these but finally she said its my life i want to live the way i want,i don't care what world is or will think for me...I am like this only and i am happy with this.I have certain criteria to judge people...and after a small chit chat we hang up..


But hour after she hang up i was just thinking yes she is right somewhere but she is doing blunder somewhere.Well its my relative thinking even i can be wrong.I agree everyone of us are have a picture of person we want as a future mate.But looks,status and other materialist things should be a criteria I doubt..Humans shouldn't be judge by their looks or money or brand but by moral value,how good a person he is(ofcourse every thing is relative i am talking about).Suppose a persons (can be considered as a relatively good human being) love you a lot but he doesn't fit on your criteria and one day when you find some passing your expectetion you will go with him/her just for the fact that he/she is rich,handsome or beautiful.And what if you find some one more richer..you will keep doing this for whole life.


And then world says you are not a good person you simply turn your head and say i can't see you guys..

Just closing your eyes doesn't means that there is darkness...the darkness then is only inside you..And time when you will open your eyes again you will find yourself in the same situation.For overcoming every thing you will have to spend some energy,you need to break some bonds form some new but in right direction...Humans should be judge by values for which they exist...care,love, happiness,relations,friends...

My friends everyone us have enough energy to lightup our innerself and the world just try,try and try....and have faith nor in science nor in God but in yourself.You are maker of your own destiny,your very own character don't let otherthings to rule that and there you will need a friend who can guide you to right direction but never ask your friend to prove himself he is not a Pythagorus theorem....remember it...

10 comments:

pallavi said...

gud one...but would just like to make one little point...proving oneself as a friend is not anyway related to theorems.A friend is one whom we feel we can tell our achievements,failures and thoughts fully 'assured' that he is going to understand not only what we say but also what we dont say.And this assurance has to be there.May be everyone wants this assurance as a proof....

Rajeev Rai said...

critics are welcome...
i told u na everything is relative what i think as right may be wrong for other...

Aashutosh said...

hmmm.....nice to c the great thinker RAJEEV coming out with his thoughts....I always knew u thought very differently n thr is a serious RAJEEV behind this exuberant one....gud one!!! gr8 thought process...keep it up.

Rajeev Rai said...

@ aashu

thanks for the encouragement buddy..well all the inspiration are from you all guys... especially tere blog se:)

anu said...

hmm.. intrestinn blog....some serious thinkin.. vaise i dont blame that frnd of yours for thinkin the way she is... 6 mahine naukri k baad...hehe gettin married to a rich guy seems to b a really grt idea...

Rajeev Rai said...

@ Anu
hahaha matlab apka bhi vchar nek hi hai...
waise nothing is absolute wrong dear...
muhe ghar amai ka mauka mile to hum bhi ban jaye bus sasurji k pass bank balance rehna chahiye
:)

Unknown said...

badhiya...achha likha hai....tere blog ko to nai padha maine....logon k comments padhe....logon ne to kaafi achha likha hai tere baare mein.....itne log bol rahe hain to blog bhi mast hi likha hoga tune....keep 't up raajuu...nd bhai log mast comments likhte jaao......all the bst....

SHUMAILA said...

gud...waise ye sirf larki ki thought le kar mat chalo larke v aisa hi sochte hai anyway nice 2 c ur thougts

Rajeev Rai said...

@ sheemu

bola to yaar ye gender specific nahi hai..
thax for ur comment ab next blog likha a sakta hai

Ritwik said...

Hey, It's impressive that you are thinking to such depths.

Really impressive...

I would have liked more if u could have dwelt more with Science and Religion's relationship as I find it pretty interesting.

But, even the comparative example you have chosen from real life is commendable.

Nice thought...